From a female LIB reader

I went to visit my fiance at his village because of a family occasion going on. I came two days before the occasion and stayed three days after the occasion. Each time I want to take my bath, my mother-in-law carry her bucket and want us to bath together. I've been avoiding her but it is getting out of hand. What does she want to see? What is her motive? Please I need solutions to this problem.